It was an overcast Saturday morning, surprisingly warm for the end of February. My alarm rang, but I was already awake. I climbed out of bed and dressed for the day with the clothes I had picked out the night before- something neutral and comfortable.  My heart skipped a beat or two as I applied my mascara, but otherwise it was just a run of the mill morning routine. I met my husband at the top of the stairs and asked if he was ready.…